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Understanding fertility & infertility


Fertility is about the ability to get pregnant. Infertility is not being able to conceive despite frequent & unprotected sexual intercourse for at least 1 year.


At Boots, we’ve got advice, products & services to help support your fertility journey.

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Written by Okorite Ephraim Medically reviewed byBoots Pharmacy Teamon 07/11/2024Updated: 07/11/2024
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What is infertility?

Infertility is when a couple has trouble getting pregnant, even though they have regular unprotected sex. The World Health Organisation defines infertility as a condition of the reproductive system where a couple is unable to achieve a pregnancy after trying for 12 months or more.

In the UK, about 1 in 6 couples may face difficulties with conceiving. If you haven't been able to conceive after a year of having regular unprotected sex (regular is every 2 - 3 days), it's important to talk to your doctor. If you are over 35 years old or already know you have a health condition that can cause fertility issues, you should speak to them sooner.

There are many reasons why infertility might happen, and it can affect both partners. Sometimes, both partners might have fertility issues. In some cases, doctors might not be able to find a clear reason for the fertility problems; this is called unexplained infertility.

Causes of infertility

Infertility can be complex and challenging. There are many different causes of infertility and getting a better understanding of these can help with deciding how to go forward. It’s important to remember that infertility isn’t anyone’s fault, and it can happen to anyone.

Secondary infertility

Secondary infertility happens when someone who has had one or more pregnancies before is finding it difficult to conceive again. Just like primary infertility, secondary infertility can be very challenging and upsetting.

How is secondary infertility treated?

The treatment for secondary infertility is usually the same as for primary infertility. It might include medications to help with ovulation, or assisted conception techniques like IVF (in vitro fertilisation) or intrauterine insemination (IUI).

Age & fertility

As people get older, it can take longer to become pregnant because fertility tends to decline with age. That’s why it’s important to get a diagnosis as soon as possible. Couples who have had a pregnancy together before are often more likely to have another successful pregnancy, even if they need some help from fertility treatments.

Fertility testing

After speaking to your doctor, they might refer you for some tests or perform physical examinations.

Physical examinations


The doctor might weigh you to check your body mass index (BMI) and examine your pelvic area to check for signs of conditions including (but not limited to):


The GP might also check your:

  • Testicles to see if you have any deformities or lumps
  • Penis to see if there are any issues with the structure or shape

Tests


Some of the tests you might be referred for include:

  • Blood tests – these tests can check if you’re ovulating by measuring your hormone levels. If your periods are irregular, other hormones might be tested as well
  • Chlamydia test – chlamydia is a type of sexually transmitted infection (STI) that can affect fertility and is treated with antibiotics. If you think you might’ve been exposed to chlamydia, you can find out using the Boots Online Doctor Chlamydia Home Test Kit2 – there’s a test for women and one for men
  • Ultrasound scan – this scan can check your ovaries, womb and fallopian tubes. It can look for conditions that might affect fertility and pregnancy
  • X-ray – an X-ray called a hysterosalpingogram (HSG) can show if there are any blockages in your fallopian tubes
  • Laparoscopy – this is a type of keyhole surgery where a camera is used to look at your reproductive organs. It’s usually only done if there’s a reason to suspect there’s an issue
  • Semen analysis – this test checks your sperm for things like the sperm count and movement to try and identify any issues

Can I check my fertility at home?

Fertility tests can give you a helpful starting point to help you understand your fertility and help you make informed decisions, whatever situation you’re in. It’s important to know that at-home fertility tests don’t give you all the answers and cannot replace an accurate diagnosis made by a medical professional.

It’s important to remember that while these tests can be helpful, they don’t replace seeing a doctor if you’re worried about your fertility. If you’ve been trying to get pregnant for a year and you haven’t conceived, make sure to speak to your doctor.

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Diagnosing infertility

Most couples will become pregnant naturally within a year if they have regular unprotected sex. Regular unprotected sex means having sex every 2 to 3 days without using any contraception.

If you’ve been trying to get pregnant for a year and you haven’t conceived, it’s a good idea to see your doctor. However, you should consider seeing a doctor sooner if:

  • You’re a woman aged 36 or older – fertility can decrease faster after your mid-30s
  • You have concerns about your fertility, like if you’ve had cancer treatment or a sexually transmitted infection, or have an existing condition(s) that you know may affect your fertility


The doctor will check for anything that might be causing difficulties and help guide you on what to do next. It’s a good idea for both partners to see the doctor since fertility issues can affect either or both of you.

What should I expect from my doctor?

When you visit the doctor, they might ask questions to understand your situation better. Your GP may suggest changes to improve your chances of getting pregnant. Here’s what they might ask about:

Previous pregnancies

If you’re a woman, the doctor will ask about any previous pregnancies and if there were any complications or miscarriages. If you’re a man, they’ll ask if you’ve had children from previous relationships.

How long you’ve been trying

The doctor will want to know how long you’ve been trying to get pregnant. If it hasn’t been very long and you’re under 40, they might suggest you keep trying for a little while longer.

Sexual activity

The doctor will ask how often you have sex and if you have any difficulties. It might feel awkward, but being honest can help find solutions to any problems.

Contraception history

You’ll need to tell them about any contraception that you’ve used in the past and when you stopped. Some types of contraception can take a while to stop working, which might affect your fertility.

Medical history

The doctor will discuss any medical conditions you’ve had, including sexually transmitted infections. If you have periods, they’ll ask if your periods are regular and if you experience any unusual bleeding.

Medicines

Some medicines can affect fertility. The doctor will ask about any medications you’re taking, including herbal remedies and supplements.

Lifestyle factors

Your lifestyle can sometimes impact your fertility. The doctor may ask:

  • If you smoke
  • How much you weigh
  • How much alcohol you drink
  • If you use any illegal drugs
  • If you’re feeling stressed

Treating infertility

Infertility treatment can sometimes feel like a long journey, but it’s important to remember that there are a number of different ways to help.

The treatment that’s appropriate for you will depend on the cause of your infertility. We know and understand there’s no ‘one size fits all’ approach when it comes to fertility.

If you have a high BMI, doctors often recommend working on getting closer to a healthy weight, as this can improve your chances of getting pregnant and having a healthy pregnancy. Other lifestyle changes that can help include quitting smoking, reducing alcohol intake and avoiding recreational drugs.

There are three main types of fertility treatment:

  • Assisted conception – this includes treatments like in vitro fertilisation (IVF), where the sperm and egg are combined outside the body before being implanted in the womb. Sometimes donor sperm or eggs might be needed, especially if there are issues with sperm quality or if age is a factor
  • Medication to help you ovulate – there are medicines available that can help trigger the release of eggs
  • Surgery on the reproductive system – if there are issues like blocked fallopian tubes, endometriosis or fibroids, surgery might be needed. These surgeries can help to clear any blockages or remove growths that might be preventing pregnancy

Assisted conception

Assisted conception is the use of medical techniques that help people become pregnant. The most well-known method is in-vitro fertilisation (IVF), but there are other options like intrauterine insemination (IUI).

Living with infertility

Dealing with infertility can be difficult. Even if you weren’t sure about starting a family before, many people assume that if they decide to have children, it will just happen. When things don’t go as planned, it can feel devastating. It’s natural to feel a mix of hope and sadness as you go through infertility treatments.

Acknowledge your feelings

It’s normal to feel a range of emotions like worry, sadness, anger and more. Recognising these feelings and understanding your fears is a big step in managing them. This can help you stay calm and refocus.

Communicate with your partner

Once you understand your feelings, it’s important to share them with your partner. Being open and honest helps you both support each other. Good communication can prevent misunderstandings and resentment, helping you face this challenge together.

Consider professional counselling

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or are feeling low, a fertility counsellor might be able to help. Counselling offers a safe space to express your feelings and can provide coping strategies during this challenging time.

Join a support group

Connecting with others who are going through the same thing can be incredibly comforting. Support groups, whether online or in person, give you a place to share your experiences and feel understood.

Understand your options

Infertility can make you feel like you’ve lost control. But knowing your options can help. A fertility specialist can evaluate you and your partner, recommend treatments and suggest lifestyle changes like diet and exercise. Having a plan can make you feel more positive about the future.

Practice self-care

Taking care of yourself is crucial when trying to conceive. This means eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising. Self-care can help you stay mentally and physically strong.

Avoid blame

Blaming yourself or your partner doesn’t help. Remember, you’re in this together. If blame starts to creep in, consider talking to a fertility counsellor to help work through these emotions.

Male fertility & infertility

For people with sperm, infertility might be about how healthy the sperm are or how their bodies make them. Things like genetics, hormones, or even how you live your life can affect fertility. This includes everyone with sperm, like transgender women or non-binary people who may have sperm.

Male infertility can happen for different reasons, and the most common one is when there aren't enough healthy sperm in the semen to successfully fertilise the egg.

Male infertility can be caused by many factors, including problems with the reproductive organs, medical conditions, and even lifestyle choices or age. So, even if you’re not trying to have a baby right now, the decisions you make can still impact your ability to have children in the future.

If you’ve been trying to have a baby for 12 months without success, it’s a good idea to see your doctor.

However, if you have any of the following issues, you should visit your doctor right away:

  • Pain and/or swelling of your testicle(s)
  • Abnormal discharge from the penis
  • Rash or blisters on the penis
  • Pain while weeing or ejaculating
  • Injury or trauma to the testicles
  • Testicles that haven’t descended properly


Your doctor will likely examine you and may arrange tests and/or may prescribe treatment if necessary (for example, for a sexually transmitted infection).


If needed, they may arrange for a semen analysis and might refer you to a fertility specialist for more tests. Together, you can then decide on the best treatment to help you conceive.

Causes of male infertility

Fertility & the menstrual cycle

The menstrual cycle is the time from the first day of your period to the day before your next period begins. While the average cycle lasts 28 days, it’s perfectly normal for it to be longer or shorter, ranging from 23 to 35 days.

The menstrual cycle is controlled by hormones. During the first part of the cycle, levels of a hormone called oestrogen rise, which causes the ovary to develop and release an egg—this process is called ovulation. At the same time, the lining of the womb begins to thicken, preparing for a possible pregnancy.

In the second half of the cycle, another hormone, progesterone, helps the womb get ready for a fertilised egg to implant. The egg then travels down to the womb through the fallopian tubes that connect the ovaries to the womb.

If the egg is fertilised by sperm, it gets implanted in the lining of the womb and pregnancy can begin. If the egg is not fertilised, the levels of oestrogen and progesterone then drop, and the thickened womb lining breaks down and leaves the body as a period.

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